I am at the exact same point. WW has been having affair for 4 months now and she said last night was her last she is moving out. I do feel I am at a new low after a few solid weeks of DBing but this is the only true way I know if she ever wants to come back.
I know it will make things easier in the long run because not having her around reduces any anxiety that I have when we are in the room together or if/when she will walk in door. I have been working on me and this will give me more opportunity to do so.
And yeah it stinks big time, but I plan on taking it in small steps. Get out there meet new people, enjoy my kids, do some things that I had to ask permission to do before.
Last edited by lost8; 09/06/1807:33 PM.
H-50 W-48 T-19 M -18 S23, S14 BD - 5/9/2018 OM discovered 5/10/2018
In house sep - 8/18/2018 Rope drop 2/15/2019 R'ing since 3/15/2019
