Remember believe 0% of what the WAS says and only 50% of what they do. You are still putting way too much stock in his words. Like you say, he is all over the place. You are only going to torture yourself by allowing your moods to fluctuate to the rhythm of his words and actions. Be the lighthouse (have you read the lighthouse post?) He doesn't seem to have any idea what he is doing, so you need to be the solid one, the one who has their sh#t together.
You have DBing since when, August? It is still really early in your sitch. As Steve always says it is a marathon, not a sprint. Don't expect to see instantaneous results, and if you do, don't trust them. It is a long process and you need to ready yourself for that. You already see that quick results don't last. Your H has to make some big changes if the MR is going to work.
In the meantime, you need to keep working on yourself and focusing on your D. Did you come up with any goals?
Hang in there. It really s@cks, but it will get better if you work at it.
W 34 Me 42 Married 7 years together 8 0 kids 1 beloved dog BD 4/6/2018 I moved out 4/7/2018 I moved back in alone 8/05/2018 I file 3/06/2019 D official 5/7/2019
