Husband aged, trying 180 (4)

[Ready2Change]

... Do I always need to leave the house?

No. You need to do what works.

I will elaborate more later.



H:"Hi Wife, I waited to the last minute to ask if I can come over to see the baby."

I would have responded:
W:"H, I asked about a schedule the other day and you did not ask about tonight. I already have plans with D to go here, here and here. You are free to join us."

Next time you should be all dolled up. Looking great, maybe a cute little dress. Make-up, hair done, the whole 9 yards.

He'll be all like "Where are you going?"

"Out."

"With whom?"

"No one."

When he really starts grilling you, stop him, and say "When you decided to stop being my H you lost the right to ask me about where I am going."

This is what you do.

New perfume. New outfits. New style. New hair cut. (What ever makes you feel good and sexy)

You are COMPETING with a fantasy. Kick her ***.