So when my W started having sex with me the vets here rightly pointed out that while she might physically be with me, she could have mentally and emotionally been with OM. Not saying this to burst your bubble but so that you are aware of the complexity that a WW is.
I hear you Steve and that's a good point. She is still skeptical of my change and for that reason she is still somewhat emotionally detached. I am realistic but I can't know what's actually true unless I snoop (which I don't feel like doing) or she talks to me about. I think GAL is the key for me, and I need to keep focusing on that, say she drops a bomb on me and runs off with her EA and it goes PA, it's always a possibility. If that happens I pull back completely and basically stop going home and only deal with her about the kids.
