Just so you are aware I do know the race you ran, I am very familiar with this race and all the races that weekend. I belong to two running clubs. So I did see you and your sons time. This site is about anonymity, but I just wanted you to know. If you want I can let you know who I am as well.
I don't really know how to feel about that. Not because you know who I am, that's fine I guess as long as I don't know you in real life, but because you could not possibly have just found me. You had to have looked purposefully to figure it out and I guess I just don't understand why. I've appreciated your contributions to my thread and my situation but to me, part of what makes it ok for me to be here as a married woman who already has trust issues in my marriage, pouring my heart out about things that are very VERY personal, is that no one knows who I am and no one particularly cares.
Sorry about this I just know about this race bc the half marathon that goes with it is on my bucket list. You are right that we should not be be able to know who each other are, and be able to post knowing that we are anonymos.
I will take a step back from posting on your thread. I wish you well with your sitch and I hope you find peace.
M:52 W:49 D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20 ILYBNILWY 5/28/17 Still living together W filed 1/5/18 W moved out 8/24/18 D final 9/18/20
