As far as I know she is coming to me for her sexual needs which is a positive step forward.
So when my W started having sex with me the vets here rightly pointed out that while she might physically be with me, she could have mentally and emotionally been with OM. Not saying this to burst your bubble but so that you are aware of the complexity that a WW is.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018