Quote: I keep thinking that he's not really LD...just LD under the current situation between you two.
Hey DBR...I agree! I think he has become so deathly afraid of "real" sex that he just avoids it altogether. Which is why the porn turned into such a problem in the past - another avoidance technique. By giving him back the "gift" I am hoping, as you suggested, to validate his sexuality a little more rather than always seeming so critical about what works for him (even if I don't completely understand it myself).
