Hi crouton. Just remember "believe nothing that they say..."
In your first post you told us she stayed in a hotel instead of her grandmas...You know, It´s a similar MO... I´m sorry to tell you this man. I´m a WH, I used to have those behaviors...I´m sorry man. That´s a red light for me...
Just get some boundaries, as Amoafwl says. Get your respect back.
