Black

I followed the advice here

I let her do the work to file

I did nothing to stand in her way

She filed without telling me

And a year later she withdrew it without telling me either

My L notified me of both actions

You cannot make your w drop it

You can only control you

Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids
2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong
2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2
2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving