Your father is an ahole and his comments reveal only his own faults, not yours.
Suggestion, unless you can't financially deal, don't engage with this type of person. No good will come from it. Next time, let her take the clothes (or the whatever). Show her you won't engage. You'll pay more in lawyer fees fighting over this stuff than just replacing the clothes.
Good advice, thanks
Me:48 W:43, Kids:S19, S17, S10, S8 M:10 years BD:06-18-2018
