I think god puts people in our paths on purpose. Some help us grow and sometimes it might put us in the trial of our life. But I also know we all have our freedom to choose. And with that freedom there is consequences.

Hi Nic,

Just to add to this - I want to bring up a small story I told my S when he was smaller. The moral of the story was that we all have God given gifts. I started by saying that God has given each of us many different gifts for us to use on our life journey. It is up to us on how we use or give these gifts. Along our journey we will encounter all sorts of people. Each person is placed on a path for a reason. Some may teach us skills, some may teach us lessons. It is up to us on how we take and interpret these gifts. So through your life when you encounter someone new or old ask yourself -what do I need to learn from this person?
My son was about 5 years old when I told him this- He asked very puzzled, "Well what if the person is very mean, what do learn from this?" After some thought I responded " This person is giving you the gift of how NOT to act-how you should treat everyone with kindness". We all have met these people - It becomes our choice on how we are to act. Just like in a M when things go bad- we all can choose what to do.

Anyways Nic- I thought I share that with you and hope you choose what is right and come out with happiness and peace. Blessings!


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18