Kech, his bar lifestyle will never last. It's fun for a while but it all starts to wear down sooner than later. My suggestion to you is to some how some way hit your breaking point. Like I've told another poster. You're better than this! I have also talked to a lady I know. She went through it twice with 2 different men. As soon as she was done, and I mean her mind was made up done. The dude came crawling and crying back. But here's the other part. Her mind was made up. She wanted nothing to do with him. Same story, hanging out at the bars with OW. It got old and he thought "oh she will be there no matter what." She has my kids"...Nope...too late. So just like everyone has told me and told you. You need to let him go so you can be free! Dont use the daughter as an excuse to have interactions. Of course he wants to see her when its conveinant for him. But dont you sit and wait for it to happen. You get your self busy being the freaking Wonder Woman for the D. No kid wants to see their mom or dad all depressed, stressed, unhappy all the time,worrying about every little thing. They want happiness and joy no matter what. Get yourself to that point. To the point you dont need him. Someone told me. Why are you chasing someone who dumped you and is cheating on you? Hell ,I dont know! The sooner you can get there the sooner you'll be happy. And dont you dare let him back easy if you even want him back at that point, cause he will do it again. Good luck. Stay super positive.
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15
