Thanks to you both, those were really helpful responses and ones I now know to follow. Like I said I am task oriented, so not to only answer texts that are direct questions shouldnt be too hard.
When he left last night he didnt say his usual "ill be by tomorrow", and IMMEDIATELY I knew he wasnt going to show tonight, even though when I asked to make a schedule he said he wanted to come every day and then cried and left. So, today, not one text all day. I just KNEW he wouldnt show tonight. And theres no reason he wouldnt show besides having plans of some sort. And my husband NEVER makes plans. EVER. Which means if he is, it is with OW. Makes me literally sick to my stomach as I sit here in our living room, nursing our daughter, and he is no doubt having some sort of date or something.
Never before would he do this. He is skipping a night with his daughter because he made plans with someone else. I saw his truck at another bar around 4:30pm. I know I wasnt supposed to take that street but I did. And there his truck was. He either has brought original OW into town for the night, or there is someone else he has made plans with. And all I can say is what a piece of s*** he is. An absolute piece of s***.
In OUR city, where people could see him, he is so disrespectful its unbelievable. I try to make a schedule with him and he cries and gets upset, but then he can decide he isnt coming one night and not even inform me because he knows whatever his other plans are are WRONG.
Im disgusted that this is all continuing to be on his terms somehow. I do not get it.I kicked him out like I needed to do. I tried to make a schedule with him like I needed to do. and yet he continues to just show up whatever time he wants, and now NOT come when hes made other plans. And then he will want to come tomorrow and he will be livid if I say no. AND he wants to have her to do something this weekend! How is this fair? How is everything just so easy and works out so simple for him?
Its a Wednesday night, he literally has MADE PLANS to be with OW and I know it. He hasnt planned any type of date for him and I in months and here he is making plans with someone else instead of coming to see his daughter. This is a first and I want to throw up. Should I text him? I mean this is SO unfair that he can come and see her as he pleases and doesnt feel the need to inform me of any of it. I feel like daily its a new low. I think I cant be hurt anymore and I am. I knew when he left last night he wasnt going to come today, and then he texted that he wanted to do something with her this weekend. I KNEW that was because he was going to skip a day during the week. I know him SO well. Yet im SO upset by this. Im sick to my stomach.
Do I text him and say something like "are you not coming by to see her tonight?" or do I say nothing