{{{{{hh}}}}} What can you say about this? I, frankly, don't get it. The concept of not having an O while ML is simply foreign to me. And it appears as if he abstained from the O so that he could go surf porn? I can't figure that one out. Real thing here, and pix or movies over here. I know where I'd go.
However, it sounds like you might be pulling some control stuff on him. I say this because you "gave him permission" to use porn again, and when he does, you go ballistic. Kind of like Dave buying the big TV for his wife, and then getting pissed because all she wants to do is watch it. You enable, then punish. You might want to think about that. His remark about giving up was a cry of desparation...he doesn't know what to do to please you. So he tries to please himself and gets slapped. I can see why you're both frustrated. I would be too.
Anyone have any other insights? Corri? Bueller?
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