Thanks Vapo and J9. I really needed to hear from you guys today. I'm having one of those days. Glad you're here to help me through this storm. I know you've had to repeat alot of things or say it in a more blunt way. I'm glad you set me straight on her strange behaviors. Like you say, it would be a whole new relationship if it ever comes of it. My goal is to get to the point where I can see and think clearly. I'm so stuck on why a mom, wife would turn to this mess. How did she not see what was at stake? Anyways...she gets kids tonight. I'm going to disappear during the exchange. Probably best I dont see her . I don't want to get caught in the moment and start asking questions or something else that might ruin my progress. Not sure there's any progress to lose. It's been very quiet between us anyways. Makes me wonder who is coaching her to detach from me.
ME 47 W 38 M17 T20 Separated 5/20/18 D-bomb 7/9/2018 Nothing Filed 4 kids ages 6, 10, 14, 15