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She finally told me why she was crying when she called to ask me to move in. Because she had just told OM she couldn't see him anymore because she was going to move back in.


Don't believe anything she says! That sounds totally WW bs to my ears.

You remind me so much of another poster and his WW. You don't or can't see how manipulative she is. She sets you up by throwing a few crumbs and then when you are let down, you blame it on DBing having opposite effects.

Here is the link to his first thread, if you want to read it. Perhaps you can see his W the way we could see her. I don't really know if he ever did. She worked him right up till they met in court.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forum...ain=60803&Number=2757467#Post2757467


It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!