Aw, you rascally Avoidant you, Don - you're catching feelings!
The reason you feel so - uncomfortable - is because once you have feelings you have something to lose. That's generally why Avoidants keep people at arms length. But as my friend once said - "Avoidants need love too!".
You may just have found the right woman who doesn't want to see you all the time and crowd you. You got what you wished for so just enjoy and stop looking into the ditch. (A friend taught me to ride a dirt bike once and he said - "Don't look into the ditch or you'll end up in the ditch. Look where you want to go.")
