Yes Job. My thoughts exactly. Time wise we are entering the danger zone from bomb drop and the start of the most recent "relationship." Limerence must be tapering off, and with the filing he has the realization of what he stands to lose (particularly monetarily), how much it is going to cost, and that he will have no access to me or the kids through me any longer (and because they won't respond, that's a double whammy). If he was pressured into doing it, he is likely resentful and taking it out on someone. I think he really, really likes to be pursued, so I am staying way far away and avoiding all communication so there is no question that I am not doing it. I just worry about the child at home and the likely response to this unexpected showing of emotion. If that child opens the door, it will bring him into my orbit in a most unwelcome way.
