Thanks, I have been trying to read more stories of others and chime in. I am so all over the place emotionally I dont know I have any advice to give but I will try. I keep telling myself if he brings up divorce again, thats really the bottom for me. Divorce and custody will be rock bottom for me. And If I can handle my reactions to those conversations, then I can handle anything.
My goals right now are to get through our interactions pleasantly, not to nice him to death but to just try to be me, but brief, and slightly aloof. Ignoring him when he texts sometimes feels like the wrong thing to do. If I want to come off as being okay, isnt ignoring him defeating that? I question this. I ignored the picture he sent last night and today is the first day I havent heard from him at all. Does ignoring him give off the vibe that I am upset?
