Be on your toes. They swing back and forth from being nice and then going into monster mode. Usually when they are quiet and then poke their heads out a bit, they are or have been up to something. I hope I am wrong about this...but it sounds like he may be starting the distancer/pursuer dance.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
