Likely he is trying to weasel back home. Don't fall for it.
This again is where detachment comes in.
Detach from the outcome.
Ketch, it is critical that you can look at your interactions with H as if you were watching two other people. Then you advise yourself on what the "Right thing to do".
Take me for example. You have questions. I have to think about your questions. I have to evaluate many responses. I pick one (or two). I post my response. Let's say somewhere in my future, I learn my partner has been unfaithful. My work here makes it easier for me to respond (logically) the right way even though it might be emotionally devastating. Same thing for you. Thinking about things now makes it easier to make better choices in the future.
