Steve so true....follow up to my last reply. She started back up at 5AM and I got pulled a little too far into an argument but stepped back quickly. She kept saying how bad things were in the house and what all I had done to this family and that we should sell the house. How she hated my gutts. I was calmly like why don't we get an agreement in place then. I asked what she wanted, do you want a divorce, she said no. She said she wanted the house in order for Xmas, really, does she expect that it would be a normal holiday when you say its so toxic.

Is she waiting for me to cave? Expecting me to give in and beg for her back? We know that's not happening.

Should I move forward with having a realtor come look at our home? I'm not selling until I know what would come of the custody issue because now she claims he would go with her. Would the realtor be another step to showing her that she is losing it all? I think she is close and have no intentions on giving in.


H-50
W-48
T-19
M -18
S23, S14
BD - 5/9/2018
OM discovered 5/10/2018

In house sep - 8/18/2018
Rope drop 2/15/2019
R'ing since 3/15/2019