Originally Posted by RR17
Personally, I would let her take the dog.

If you decide not to. Why? Not that you owe W an explanation. But why not? Remember you are detached. If she wants to try to rekindle a relationship with a dog, so be it.
I think showing that you care is counterproductive to your mission. Don't make it a "thing". Just my take.


^^^I agree.^^^ Keeping her from having time with the dog just sounds to me like you are trying to punish her, and I am sure she will see it like that as well. Like 25 likes to say, "keep the way home paved and smooth". When faced with these choices ask yourself if your response is doing that or throwing roadblocks in her way.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57