I will. Thank you for being there during a rough patch.
Did, and I feel for you my friend. This stuff is tough. Knowing what to do. The pain, hurt, anger, frustration, etc can cause you to make decisions you will later regret. Like dating the OW. I am sure you did that to feel better, to feel validated, to feel like you were attractive again. The problem is it isn't right for the reason Loves enumerated.
When your pain, anger and frustration makes you want to do something ask yourself: is it the right thing to do?
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018