kech you are doing fine. My only criticism is do not keep her up for him. This is the way to handle it:

Him: I want to see D tonight.

You: Okay, her bedtime is xpm, as long as you are here by then you will have time to spend with her tonight.

When you bend to him, ie "I will keep her up until you get here" he knows he still has you on the hook.

Remember, you are living your life. He can choose to be part of that or not, but you are not going to make changes to accommodate him.

I am with you, I think he is at least into (even if it isn't reciprocated) someone at this bar. But yes, I would purposely NOT drive by that bar anymore. You can't stop focusing on him so much until you make changes to stop focusing on him so much.

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018