I really think she brings that stuff up trying to convince herself that's its best. And to temp check you - to see what you will say.
Loves the problem is that Did agreed to pay his W $2100+/month in support in separation through the end of September. If you go back and read his sitch you will see, what is quite obvious to me, that she is trying to keep him attached in order to secure support into perpetuity.
I believe he needs to stop support after Sept (since he agreed to it through then). And see just how serious she is about separation and D. Until then he cannot take anything she says or does at face value due to the voluntary support. (Yes, I know you can never take a WAS at their word and only half of their deeds, but I think Did's sitch is further complicated due to this support). He also has a severe case of NGS, and I haven't seen that he has done a lot to work on that.
Did, to answer your earlier question, yes the legal system says she may be entitled to spousal support due to your circumstances. However, any D lawyer will tell you not to start that support until there is a court order in place to do so. Your mistake was agreeing to this without her going through what she needed to do in order to secure it. Do not do her dirty work for her, make her do it.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
