I told my attorney not to do anything unless she is contacted by WAW attorney. Let her push this. I pay the state required child support, no more than minimum after she filed. My attorney agrees. We have a schedule in principle for now through December this year, which is two weekends per month and days in between for afternoons. It works well given I have a custody schedule already in place from previous marriage for my eldest and my existing travel schedule. We nest in the house, but it was her home before the wedding, so it is not considered community property. What do you think is not fair and where do you seeing me getting more balls? And how would you recommend I cope thinking of a WAW hooking up with other men at parties when she goes away? The thought of it makes me sick to my stomach. Appreciate your advice.