I handled the evening fine. I said it was time to put the baby to bed and for me to go to sleep. He said he had to change the ac filter for me before he left, I never asked him to. When he left he didn’t mention coming by tomorrow which is weird for him.
After he left he sent a text saying he’d like to do something with the baby this weekend. I am livid. He NEVER spent any time with us on the weekends for the last 6 months, and recently he “had to work every weekend”. he never has taken her anywhere on his own. He has never tried to! And now all of a sudden after kicking him out he wants to do something with her this weekend. I am SO UPSET. Everything he does is self serving. All this time he could have spent time with us and always pretended to be busy and all of a sudden he is free and wants to take her.
I know I have to let him but I am just so upset by this. When will he get his karma for all of this? I have to lose time with her because of HIS choices?! I want to tell him he better not dare have her around some other woman. I know I need to breathe but he knows this is going to kill me more than any of this.
And why is he trying to do all these things around the house, like he’s taking care of us in some way! I don’t need him to take care of us! It’s all to feed his own ego. I’m certain he has OW. I’m certain she is telling him things to do and say. And I’m certain he is testing me every chance he gets. I hate this man right now
