I will add that anything you do should only be for you and your kids until you are emotionally healed and relatively detached.... You should circle the wagons around yourself. I am about 90% healed however I still have my moments like tonight when my daughters FaceTimed their mom.....they asked her where she was at and she said her bfs name.......I had to leave the room. She stuttered when they asked and I could tell she didn’t want to say it but she didn’t want to lie either. I told her early on when she told me about him that I never wanted his name brought up so I could tell she was trying to not go there. Deep down they know what they have done but their own desires overrule everything else.
