Journaling:

Great few days, stayed home saturday and just watched TV, it was good I thoroughly cleaned the kitchen and boy did it need it. We have a really nice kitchen but over the years there was a lack of upkeep.

Worked Sunday night and was of Monday (Labor Day) and went to a house party. As usual it was alot of fun. Many laughs, a few beers. I work the next 4 nights then I have plans to go to the social club sat. night. I took two days off from running as I needed to get some things done. grocery shopping, changing the locks etc etc.

No contact with W at all and I absolutely refuse to text or call her. She did finally tell her mother and her mother is very upset and started crying. I know this bc SIL61 (W's older Sister) told me. MIL called SIL61 and was crying on the phone. MIL asked my W why? W stated that she was done taking care of everyone and didnt want to sleep on the couch anymore. She said she was embarrassed that her children saw her sleeping on the couch. So my W has moved in with her mom and older brother he is 62.

W also attempted to re-fi the house using my credit, amazing how she really just doesnt get it. Of course they called me to let me know. She applied for the re-fi on Aug. 13th... now if you have been following along this is the date she would not meet with the two L's and me. She was afraid. So she applied for the loan the same day, she must have eally been distraught....lol....

S21 called his grandmother to ask if his mom was there and she said yes, my S21 then said ok. MIL asked if he wanted to speak with her and he said no she knows my number. He is feeling like she not only left me but also him and the family. The reality is starting to hit, but I think she finally sees that I am completely done... I am not chasing you I am replacing you!!!


M:52 W:49
D:26 S:24 S:23 D:20
ILYBNILWY 5/28/17
Still living together
W filed 1/5/18
W moved out 8/24/18
D final 9/18/20