Fly solo, You’re right. I do feel better when we leave pleasant. And I would hope it would start to paint a positive picture instead of the negative one he painted by cherry picking. You nailed it. Is it possibly my husband has had some sort of MLC, I’ve always wondered it but he is 29, which I would assume is too young.
But he’s definitely confused and I can tell. But one day I will be done caring about his confusion. He needs to get his act together! He has become so irresponsible, and he doesn’t think it’s a bad thing. He thinks he should lead whatever life makes him happy even if it means not paying certain bills (his own), all of a sudden owning a home means nothing to him, a marriage means nothing to him. And he looks at it like everyone else is crazy for living and working for the man. It’s like he wants to be free from responsibility and live this free life all of a sudden. But when I say go do it, he goes as far as the bar and then complains it’s everyone else’s fault he can’t travel or do all these things. No one is stopping him!
