Kech,

You can do this without lawyers. But first YOU have to understand the process. YOU have to fill out the forms. YOU have to submit them. Lawyers can explain your rights. They can explain your state laws. They can explain the process.

Or you can wait for H to do it. That option never works out well.

Lawyers can also be a crazy financial drain on your family. They nickel and dime you to death. They ask for a retainer. Then they use all that money and are not done with the process. Then they ask for more.

I think the biggest question right now: Are you in a fault or no fault state?


"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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