She says "I miss what we had. But that's gone, and we can't go back, and there's no future with us."
I remember that the book said this was part of it. I just can't remember what to do now. I'm lost, and I need guidance.
What to do now is what you have been doing. Detach. GAL, 180. Be the best bm you can be. In other words, don't change anything.
You are in a very important spot bm. The WAW/WW has shown signs of wanting to R. Likely you got to eager to let her. Being eager to let her come back is the same a pursuit....and will usually send the WAW/WW running the other direction. Being unattainable has a better impact...but you have to mean it. Kind of like when you said "I am going forward either way." However, you have to SHOW that too. Seeing OM at the gas station and not even looking at him......that makes a bigger statement than staring him down. What was the purpose of going to the other parking lot?! It seems like you WERE following him. Even if you weren't, I would have got that impression if I were him.
Note even acknowledging if he was there was the way to DB....not staring him down.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
