It always gets worse before it gets better. DBing isn't about "having an effect" on your WAS. It is about having an effect on you.

When she calls and wants to move back in....and you tell her to kick rocks....THAT is DBing working. You know what, you telling her that and REALLY MEANING IT will make her want you more. Counter-intuitive.

But when she wants to move back in, and you are open to it.....then suddenly she realizes that she can come back to you ANYTIME SHE WANTS. Guess what that does, that makes her run to OM.

I say this at least once a week if not more. If you are DBing to get her to change you will fail every time. If you are DBing to be able to move on with or without her, then you will always succeed. Note success here isn't that she comes back, but that you move on with or without her!

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018