Hi there,

Wearing the ring is a personal choice. Does your husband wear his? I took mine off after my W took hers off.

I wouldn't go out of my way to do anything "wife-like" for a man who doesn't want you.

In what other ways are you being too nice? What makes you think he has are not her woman in his life?

As for the apartment, my advice is to not bring it up or discuss it with him. Has he been mentioning it to you?


H 34
W 29
BD 3/12/18
Divorce Busted Spring 19

It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.