S and I finished up the summer on a good note. We went go carting to the movies and then we celebrated the end of summer with a nice burger and then an ice cream - so much for my diet hahaha!. We talked in depth about what he wanted out of this upcoming school year. S has reinforced that he wants to go to university so we agreed to be on the same page and to keep the communication lines open. In that same line of thought we also set some boundaries and guide lines for him to keep in mind. Did some prep work with S for the first day of school. He is not a morning person - but he did his thing this morning and passed with flying colors. We even had a nice chat while walking the dog together. He said he wanted to get caught up with friends after school- I said that was ok as long as he was able to complete home work and his chores.
Had a interview last week - I felt that it did not go as well as the others. I have another interview from a company I previously interviewed for this week also. So far I only have the job offer from the start up company. Looks like that my be my only option for now.
As for W she texted me earlier today asking how S did this morning and that she wanted to set up a day to come over and continue clean up. I will keep my responses business like and brief. Now I know that I am not to be reading into this. Or maybe this a true sign of me not being fully detached but since we've been together she has always called me by the first syllable of my first name. I see the text either using my full name - she never has or not even a good morning or a Hi like she used to. I know- she is NOT the woman I married and I KNOW I still need to work on detachment.
As always I shall leave it in God's capable hands- Blessings!
M51 w50 T-20Yrs M-16Yrs S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up 1 Awesum dog BD 10/31/17 separate rooms 02/08/18 wife moved out 05/17/18
