You know Jim she might just be so unhappy with herself that she can't deal with the pressure of trying to hold and work on a marriage and all that comes with it. It just might be too much for her and the responsibilities that come with it with tending to your needs.
Think about it.
This sounds like my W as well, and I think you're right. Maybe not necessarily just unhappy with herself, but the pressure and work needed to fix the M. I just don't understand the thinking that working to save a M is harder than going through a D, starting over, living alone, etc, etc.
Married: 15yrs Ages: Me 49, W 44 Kids: S12 BD: around 4/14
