met with IC last week. W continues near complete avoidance of me to include co-parent of D. IC advised that W is at the extreme of anxiety avoidance. so hard to understand how other sitches here with EA/PAs there are still communications between W/H yet in mine complete avoidance. i ask at night why had God forsaken me, what did I do to cause such dysfunction. all I have is to keep going forward. IC asked if I was open to dating, told her I felt it would be some very long time before I'll even consider that. she said it's clear i'm dealing with a W who has mental illness. hate hearing that as I feel it's a cop out, for sure brings me no comfort. IC said the long W avoids the more dysfunctional her behavior is likely to become. i just don't get it.
