Need Guidance moving from new comer to MLC,

[marina7]

OneArt,
Yes that I was told by GAL, basically just W and I, W did
like that very much due to OW. W was angry but hey not my problem.

At drop off this weekend W didn't say much as I didn't. W was
Pacing back and fourth in parking lot. I just didn't say nothing.

As I mentioned lots of blaming me in mediation. W even brought up
an emotional affair I had about 5yrs ago which I thought I was forgiven
W is trying to play the Victim. I said to mediator

Yes I had an emotional affair around 2014, going to therapy has
help me realize an affair is an affair I have apologized to W several times
I know my 51%of why my marriage dissolved. I know it was wrong of me
I caused W pain 5yrs ago but I thought we pass that. That shouldn't given the
Right for W to take s10 and leave d10 and s9.

My lawyer agreed and said this affair is irrelevant as W left and now trying to
justify her behavior.

W has blamed me of her being this way now.

I know that I believe I went through my own crisis 5yrs ago
One day I was happy and the next day I was in love with a old
friend from FB who lived 1200 miles away. The difference is I never acted on
my affair. And never left my kids.
I remember driving and a semi truck head light was blinking and boom is
like I woke up I went home told W am so sorry I was not
sure what I was doing. From 2014 when W forgave me I
thought I did but nothing to show W I loved my family.
I became glingy and never lock my phone proving to W
I love her and my family.

Now this is why I say I take 51% of relationship failing I know
What I did wrong. But now W is the Victim and mediator feels sorry for W.