From what I have read if she wants out she will not make any effort and will move on. In these situations your WW is in the fog and you can’t let them cake eat. Something has to shake her and we are making the effort by not giving in to them to see if they are prepared to lose us forever.
Yes she is in the fog- last week she was very affectionate and was talking of me returning home and us talking- yet this week- back to reality- the childrens first day back at school and she is back to criticising me and shouting at me in front of them.
I had earlier told her I was returning home and she just went quiet- the silence was deafening
I am still GALing and it is really getting on her nerves- last night she said (again in front of the children) "you go and do your own thing put the children second again" when she knows full well I had (and have) regular plans on a Monday Night.
I need help here- I want to get back in the house- but I don't want her behaviour to continue (i.e. shouting at me, criticising me in front of the kids etc.) what is the best way to do this?
M(41), W(37) S (6) D (4) S (2) M-8, T-12 W "I don't love you, I am in love with another man" "I don't know you anymore"
