Thank you Job ! It is so easy to lose focus when ex-h is all over the map .
D18 is now an independant and scared young woman. We were able to move everything in one trip with the help of her friend. Once there, we got more help from D22 and future son-in-law. From shopping to unpacking to assembling and arranging, her place looks warm and cozy! I am so happy for her. Her insecurities shall soon desappear as her new routine takes place. Her friend is staying with her one extra night and i will be heading back there again on Thursday but this time, it will be for fun. I will spend time with D22 until Saturday. Then we will all go on an adventure to do a 4 to 5 hour hike in Killarney. It is said to be the most beautiful hike in Ontario. I can' t wait!
Since we were told that Son was going hunting with his father, we planned the move without him. Well, i should have known better. Yesterday was his girlfriend' s birthday and she posted her gifts and a cake that my son made for hef. ( a cute ladybug cake from a heartshape pan.. woww!! My son, the romantic! Then it clicked, he did not go hunting. I am 100 percent sure they would have came with us in North Bay and celebrated her birthday with us all. I was desappointed in me for not checking in with him prior to leaving.
Another crap from ex-h: he had told D18 he' d purchased a microwave for her and left it at D22' s. We got there and nope, no microwave. Only stuff D22 wanted to give to her sister. Last night, she gets a text apologizing for not droppung the microwave at my house the other night. ( NEVER A DOLL MOMENT). once again, where is the hunting in this?
Since ex-h is messed up and trying to gaslight each and everyone of us, my plans for next week-end might get cancelled last minute by an unexpected visit from their dad. It would not surprise me so i am making a plan B for myself to explore other territories on ky own for the rest of my week off, and if i am right, Killarney will be posponned to another time. I want the kids with me for it!
As for me having one less child at home, i thought i would be ok. I know i will be but tonight, i can' t sleep. Lol That is why i came on here. Maybe releasing a bit of my thoughts on here might help? I shall soon see..
