Thank you, Job. Have read through these links several times and continue to do so for guidance and strength when I am having bad days. One of the hardest things I struggle with is trying to make sense of it all. I made mistakes in my marriage but I have worked tirelessly to be a better person and better husband. I have patience, but the patience comes and goes and I begin to question why it takes someone almost a year to decide what they want to do when we've been married for only 4 years. I feel at times that WAW just wants continued infatuation that comes with a new relationship but then when things got routine, she got bored and my absences with work and with time with other kids took time away from us. I believe her parents are saddened by the whole thing but are too scared to confront her and so they enable her MLC behavior. Does anyone know how to best deal with WAW family?
