Thank you! When you say a year down the lane we will have severe regrets, what do you mean by that? Also, what do you mean by keep your list short?
We do need to set up a clear schedule, and I do need to leave when he is here. As soon as I try to set up a schedule he’s going to be really annoyed. I know that doesn’t matter, but he wants to be able to see her as much as possible and as soon as I take any nights away he’s going to get really angry. I’m trying to avoid custody talks right now bc that on top of all of this will really put me in a bad place emotionally.
Trying to stay assertive and give him times to be here by, etc, so he isn’t just showing up whenever he wants like he used to. Last night I went grocery shopping while he was at the house with her
