Kyh, OneArt, and peacetoday are awesome folks. I agree with their sage advice.
You will be alright, you really have survived the hardest part.
Originally Posted by marina7
I am just frustrated. I wish W would vanish like some other Mlc or waw is easier then having someone constantly their.
This I have experienced. At the time all I wished was for W to come back and be part of my / our lives. I would have given anything for that to happen. I was so very addicted to W.
Is it easier? Having never experienced having W around and involved, I don’t know. I think all of us think something different would be easier. Looking back none of this was easy, however some of my actions did make things more difficult.
I don’t know if you read the bit on wishes, hopes, and expectations. I am glad to see you only wish W was gone, keeping that desire on the fantasy non expectation side of things will be easier.
I am also glad to see that you let all that frustration out here. It is a good place for it. Vent we understand.
Be kind to yourself, give yourself a few days to find your center again. A lot has happened, a lot of new information to absorb. Once your feet are under you again, dust off and keep walking your path.
You are doing really good.
Feelings are fleeting. Be better, not bitter. Love the person, forgive the sin.
