Its hard to see now, and it is very painful to go through the mediation and D
But eventually things usually seem to fall in place for most of us-
Your W may decide she doesn't want 1 week custody as time goes on Usually the MLCer parent loses their ability to parent as time goes on and many seem to let go of the kids somehow the kids manage to survive the trauma and with one conscious parent they still thrive and many turn out just fine-
If you can practice in your mind - a new mantra-once you start practicing new thoughts -better feelings will take the place of the painful ones-we move into acceptance and we practice letting go to what is already happening- - I am OK- I am healing- I can let go of W- I can do this-I am here to help kids-I am doing this I always get the help I need- the kids are ok
Your are doing very well and the pain will pass the hardest part is over- all the best
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow
