When we first separated a few months ago he took all of his clothes and other things he would need.. Since he started staying here again Some of his clothes are here in the laundry room and also in the living room in a little plastic drawer he brought over a few weeks ago. Other than that there is quite a bit of his stuff around but nothing that’s ever been urgent for him to have. He didn’t take anything this weekend. He left here a little bit ago, I stayed busy while he was here.
I asked him a question about What I do if I drilled a hole too large in the wall, we both kind of laughed and he explained to me my options and then said he will take care of it for me tomorrow. I told him I was fine doing it but just wasn’t sure the best route. He said againthat he will handle all of it for me tomorrow. I HIGHLY doubt he will but I Just went on with my night.
Again we were pleasant but I stayed away as much as I could. I did laundry and asked if he could come tell me 10 minutes before he left so I could go let my brothers dog out before he left. He said “I was hoping to stay until the baby falls asleep” and I said that’s fine. Just give me a 10 mins heads up so I can go handle that.
I’m getting a little better communicating. Before I would say nothing and never be assertive, and I feel like I’m becoming stronger in a way. I hope at least
