I think by now I may have migrated from newcomers to mid life crisis forum, but looking for the moderators to validate. WAW and I have been separated now for over a year. 4 kids affected; two from us (1 year old and 5 years old) and two from me from previous marriage. WAW shows all the signs of MLC - some days she seems to be turning around, next days she is picking fights with me. Latest was a family vacation filled with fun and laughs, followed by a filing for divorce two days after we return. Been good at GAL, and trying 180s where I can. Dont initiate contact unless she does and it's then short. Call the kids everyday when I am away. WAW and I are nesting in the house with the kids. WAW filed for divorce a little less than two months ago and nothing since from her attorneys. I just wish this nightmare would end and she either finishes what she started or decides to work on the marriage. I still have hope she has a change of heart but prepared for the worst.
