Ishkabibble, I think more than anyone here that I've seen you have a gut instinct for how these things should go. You often express doubt, but I think deep down you have this. In case you really are helped by all of our annoying butting in, I'm with the others. Hold back a little. It hasn't been that much time. I think the work really belongs to her to bring this back together and until she is pulling the heaviness of that load, you can't tell how genuine it is. Also, she seems to like what she can't have, so don't let her know she has you too quickly. Sure, give a little reassurance, as you did, but don't overdo it.
