Today W is hosting a gathering at her place celebrating her deceased moms 70th birthday, and I agreed to let her pick up S6 to take and be there.
Our correspondence was laid out clearly that she would have picked S up at my place at 4. Over weekend, S informs me that mommy said that her friend would be picking him up when she had lunch with him on Friday. This took me off guard as WAS never provided me notice.
I usually wouldn’t have made a stink of it....but this friend is a prohibitive weed smoker.
WAS tried to pull a stunt and texted me 20 minutes before she was supposed to pick up S6 saying her friend would be coming over as she was running “short on time”
I ripped into her....called her out and said she wasn’t running short on time 3 days ago when she informed S. W acted as if this wasn’t a big deal. I then asked her if friend had toked up today. Got the huff and hang up.
I should have stood my ground....but allowed her friend to take S6.
I texted her I’m done with self serving BS behavior....
It won’t matter, She still got what she wanted without consequences other than me getting riled.
Feeling completely disrespected and disregarded..
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18