Hi again, I’m glad to read your trio will be together! I’m sorry it didn’t go like you wanted and about her projection but keeping the kids together was the most important thing. I know it seems like it will be hard but you will grow and become stonger from this than you ever could’ve imagined. Don’t sit back and let w f up the kids lives! you can’t control what your ex does but you can grow and be a stable person for your kids and they will pick it up immediately, and the real payoff is long-term.
The coparenting (whatever that is) will work out, sometimes i think ex and I are coparenting and other times it’s single parenting and mlc ex spouse management. It can change like a switch and it’s not easy but as you detach from your situation things will keep getting better. You’re going to be okay:) focus on what you got and try to catch up on your rest. You’ll feel better and see things more clear when you do (at least I did), the GAL decision takes so long and it drains you every second of it.
